Do you like it when I remind you what you need to do?
So do I. If it's maintenance day, YOU can remind me. Don't assume I'm deciding not too. You know, sometimes your never-stressed Husband does get stressed. New job... kids schedules... sometimes YOU need to remind me. W/we need maintenance.
And just like that, I did understand. It amazes me the miscommunication that can occur when I have a conversation for ONE in my head. (I know- I can be an idiot!).
Our spring cleaning, there have been many moments of distracted/busy/vanilla life. That will never change, life is life. O/our life.
Here we are today, pushing my comfort zone and boosting HIS control.
-No purchases off of HIS approved list without prior permission.
-If He gives me a list/expectation, it is to be done. No excuses. No forgetting.
-Work days, no matter how late, don't change my expectations.
-I am to initiate projects in our home. No waiting for Him to tell me every time. I know what he wants. I need to DO it.
-Food Diary was uploaded onto my phone and I am expected to log everything I take in.
-Clit orgasms will only be allowed after He decides that I appropriately took care of Him the night prior. I am to get permission for every clit orgasm.
The more submissive you are to me, the easier it is to lead you. No questioning me anymore. If you have a question, don't ask in front of the kids. Ask me privately.
No more 90%. I want you to do more things that frustrate you- work through them- finish them. I expect more of you.
When you get in this bedroom you are mine to do whatever the fuck I want with you. When you come to bed, is it your goal to cum?
no, sir. I know you like me to cum so my goal is to not do anything that will make you need to take that option away. I don't want to loose the privilege of cumming because it's not fair to you if you wanted to make me cum. It's not for me.
Your only goal is to serve me in here. I want you wet when you think about how you are going to serve me. I want your body to convulse when you think about sucking my dick.
A horrible case of bronchitis/sinus infection and so on (for me) during this time and I can tell you that I have never been happier to pick my sick ass up off the couch to finish my dishes. He is allowing me rest, insisting on rest actually, and I am thankful for HIS hand in all that I am doing.
There is great relief and freedom in having your beloved set the bar high and not allow you to fall short. He expects more. XOXO