My Man has a worry.
Will "normal" sex become so uninteresting that it will no longer easily make him hard?
Simply laying in bed next to me might not be enough at some point.
Should I feel offended? Because, I am not. I actually giggled like a school girl when he said that. Wanting to take control, direct my body, tie me up and cause me delicious pain makes Him longer and harder than normal. I know this and I LOVE THIS. I am not offended. I am not disappointed.
Becoming harder and hornier because of all he loves to do to me is one reason we are who we are. Marriage can become stale if no-one is looking. There is a time and place for missionary, kissing, hugging, holding hands and spooning. There is nothing wrong with any of that, I love those parts of U/us. However, there is also a place for restraint and restraints, spankings and rules, ropes and floggers, belts and deep throat training. W/we were made to scratch each others itches.
How I meant to start this post is that my Man has a FETISH I think!