Anyone who has read through my blog knows that Conina B over at exploringsurrender.blogspot.com is the reason I came out of my writing shell and started this whole bloging life. I hope she never grows tired of my "Thanks" because I owe her many!!
Conina is very thankfully back on my blogroll and she asked me a question =)
How has blogging changed your relationship?
This is an ever-evolving answer.
The first benefit was honestly to my mental health. I already wrote in a journal but this was different. Up until I met all of you in blogland, I very much felt on my own fucked up little island. Now I understand that it is a beautifully kinky island that has love, pain, pleasure, patience, passion, and everything else in our own little version of normal. Most importantly, I learned through blogging that my Man is on that beautiful kinky island with me! My journaling was always TO my Man but now there is outside input and a new view that has changed us very much for the better.
A very basic silly change (that I can't deny) is the libido benefit when I regularly blog and read blogs. It keeps my focus where we want it to be. Without any of you feeding my unquenchable thirst for MORE I might grow a little boring =)
Thanks for the great question Conina!!