Saturday, January 10, 2015

Keeping tally....for REAL this time.

My Man tasked me (sometime last year) to keep track of my orgasms.  (I posted about it almost a year ago if I remember correctly).   I did a good job on and off for a while, then, life would take over and I wouldn't keep track. 

Our D/s is stronger sometimes, mild other times.  I really didn't know that he MEANT that I needed to keep track.  I was very wrong.  As new years came around he was shocked (and extremely disappointed) that I had not kept track like I was asked.  

Lesson learned.

I have been, and will continue to, keep track. 


Keep me honest folks!  Ask me where I'm at once in a while!!
26.2 Roman Numerals 1 silver plated roman numeral 26.2 mile full ...


That being said, he did up the stakes a bit.  He was discussing a discrete place for a tattoo that we could add the end of year tally to (each year).  I would absolutely lying if I said I didn't LOVE the idea! 

**Go visit subhubphx.blogspot.com  He did a recent post on the subject of submissive tattooing**


18 comments:

  1. Thanks for the "pub" Pearl.

    Mistress K. didn't ask me (or tell me) to track my/our orgasms but I have decided to. We were talking the other day and I was asking Mistress if she had ever thought that our lives would take us to a place where I would only have 4 or 5 orgasms in an entire year, be constantly desirous of my beloved wife all while having the greatest sex year in my life?

    Anyway, I really wish I had know how many orgasms Mistress had, how many full orgasms I had and how many ruined orgasms I had.

    Thanks again for the shout out Pearl. Much Love!

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    1. Of course SHIP! You have become one of my all time favorite bloggers.
      Your love of your Mistress K is something of fairy tales. But better!

      Keep up the count. I think even if she didn't ask you, it is showing respect for the gifts she IS giving you. I am fairly certain just the act of logging at the end of a day will put you into subspace.

      XOXO Pearl

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  2. I have been keeping track of mine since June. He hasn't asked to see it though, so part of me wants to stop keeping track. It appears based on your post that I should continue keeping track as He honestly could ask to see it at anytime.

    The tattoo sounds awesome!

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    1. DO NOT STOP!!!! For the love of everything holy!!! =)
      I truly had no idea my Man was so intent on my keeping count. He was really pissed that I didn't (and he doesn't get pissed).

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  3. I have decided to keep track of how often we have sex this year. He hasn't asked me to, but I just feel the need to know. Especially since sometimes it seems like once a month. I am hoping to be able to look back and see that it was more often than I thought.

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    1. I hear you. Maybe each month you can work to "one up"! Your recent posts are making January look like a good month for you two!!!!
      XOXO Pearl

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  4. Happy counting Pearl :) Love the tattoo idea!

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Roz, I do too!! The tattoo's I have are very purposeful. Having one FOR my Man would just be amazing!

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  5. I have a difficult time keeping track of my orgasms when Ty is on a roll. He can give 7 or 8 but I usually lose count after 4. This would really suck for me. And he is of no help. But at least we don't do this 5 or 6 times a week, so maybe I could try to keep count.
    The tattoo idea is great. Nobody but you two would know what it meant. Love it

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    1. When Master gives me more than I count, I log " a lot - by you .. x+". X usually is how many I could remember.

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    2. B- I'm with you on this. I get to the point where my number is "I don't know what number". Then, he usually tells me my count. re: The tattoo. I'm so excited for this to happen!!

      His slut- That WAS my way of counting the too many. As of new years, I changed my ways!

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    3. He gives me a lot when we are together, so I count up until He sends me into LA LA land. He knows at a point that I need to let go and be allowed to float, so losing track is okay.

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  6. Hi

    I am the Managing Editor of the online sexuality platform SimplySxy and was wondering if we could feature you. You may check out our website here at www.SimplySxy.com and we were the official media sponsor for Hong Kong Kink Con last year.

    SimplySxy's mission is the promotion of sex positivity and sexual diversity. We are constantly on the lookout to feature interesting and talented guests on our magazine to promote their work and have them share their opinions with our readers.

    We feature guests by having them share on a particular topic about Sex/Kink/Love/Relationships etc which will give our readers a more intimate and personal touch. You can check out this feature by Mistress Dawn as an example http://simplysxy.com/articles/2014/12/18/corporal-punishment-are-you-ready-for-pain/ or some guest wish to be featured anonymously such as Adrianna on http://simplysxy.com/articles/2015/01/16/tips-for-the-new-domme/

    Do let me know if you're interested to be featured on SimplySxy, and if you have any queries, I'll be most happy to answer them. Thank you.

    Best Regards,

    Ty L
    Managing Editor
    ty@simplysxy.com

    www.SimplySxy.com

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    1. Welcome to my blog Ty L!

      Thank you for the invitation.

      My Man and I will check out your website to see what we think. If you have read my posts, you'll know that my Man will be deciding if this is right for me and my blog.

      XOXO Pearl

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    2. Hey I thought Ty wanted me to be featured. No fair...... Maybe we should do one together on orgasms

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    3. I was contacted by this Ty, I didn't mean my Ty

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    4. B, I would so co-write with you!!! Orgasms, spanking, sucking at being a submissive =) ......anything!

      Also, I saw the same comment post on subhub's blog. Sounds like Ty L is poaching some fun blogs!!

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