Friday, June 27, 2014

Change this post name so she doesn't find it! =)

My very best friend confided in me a bit ago about her wanting to do a threesome (not with us my silly blogger friends!).

So, I made the leap.  And- I told her that I have a sex blog.

The sky didn't fall.  The world did not end.  My very best friend said "AWESOME, I WANT TO READ IT!"

Slow down Milly.....I don't write fiction.  She STILL wants to read.  What an amazing friend I have!!  I told her how much I love and appreciate her friendship.  Then I told her no.  =)


**I READ THIS TO MY VERY BEST FRIEND!  SHE GIGGLED.  NOW I CHANGED THE  NAME OF THE POST IN CASE SHE TRIES TO BE DETECTIVE!!  AND, IF SHE DOES FIND IT...... WELCOME MILLY, YOU FINALLY KNOW IT ALL =)**



12 comments:

  1. That would be my answer too :) Knowing about the existence of a blog is one thing, reading it is an entirely different matter!

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    1. We had such a ridiculously funny conversation about it all! We just laughed at how nervous each of us were to pull out the secrets...even though we know some crazy things already about each other. I guess as we have grown older we assumed our crazy days were behind us! Not so much =)

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  2. It is fun to think about though isn't it? You know, letting someone you get a peek inside that little box where all of your secrets are kept. Fun to think about and scary as hell.

    My Mistress's BFF knows about our lifestyle and knows that we have a sex blog. I had offered for her to know what it was so she could read and after thinking about it a few days, she declined. It's for the best I'm sure.

    Still, it's fun to think about.

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    1. "Fun to think about and scary as hell." AGREED!! I actually told my friend that I didn't know if I wanted to laugh, cry, or puke that I just told her!

      In all honesty, I am so very proud of every nook and cranny in our relationship. The main reason I would continue to say "No" to her is that I don't want to censor myself here. I hold back very little in my vanilla life but this is very different. On here, our most intense moments as a couple are shared with like minded individuals. I also have no interest in defending our choices. Subs......Doms.....no two relationships are alike, however, we typically give each other the respect to explore and explain how we choose to. What may not feel right for our DH/sw dynamic may create love and connection in another, I'm not here to judge.

      Jay, you gave me a light hearted comment and I just analyzed the hell out of it!! I really need to stop writing my end of the day/tired posts.....

      And, yes, still fun to think about. =) I would LOVE to see the look on her face.

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  3. Awesome post! Gave me a chuckle and I needed it this morning.

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    1. Oh Brooke, I am ALWAYS good for a laugh aren't I?!?! =)
      XOXO Pearl

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  4. I told a friend a little something about my blog but refused to let her read it too. But the threesome doesn't sound so bad. Lol

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    1. Right B!
      My friend's concern was that she didn't want to be a slut.....My response.....

      "You think slut? I think LUCKY slut!!!"

      Got to support my girl right!?

      What were the circumstances around you telling your friend? Just curious how that conversation just pops up!

      XOXO Pearl

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  5. I actually have two friends that know about our D/ s .
    They both know about my blog but only one said "TMI " and never read it again...or so I'm told....
    The other one is male.... :)

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    1. Those darn males.....always in for some good sex talk =)

      Very cool that you have friends in vanilla world that you can trust!

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