Wednesday, April 30, 2014

I've been nominated for a.................

Thank you so much to Blondie for the nomination!  This award is to encourage new kids on the 'blog' with fewer than 1000 followers and I'm happy to have it!!

Here are the rules: 

1. Thank the person who nominated you and post a link to their blog on your blog.

2. Display the award on your blog-- by including it in your post and / or displaying it using a "widget" or "gadget".

3. Answer 11 questions about yourself which will be provided to you by the person who nominated you.

4. Provide 11 random facts about yourself.

5. Nominate 5-11 blogs you feel deserve this award, who have less than 1000 followers. (Note that you can ask the blog owner this since not all blogs display the widget that lets readers know this information.

6. Create a new list of questions for the blogger to answer.

7. List these rules on your post. Once you have written and published it, you then have to :

8. Inform people/blogs that you nominated that they have been nominated for the Liebster Award and provide a link for them to your post so they can learn about it (they might not have heard of it!)

Questions Blondie asked me to answer:
1. Are you generally a happy person?
I am.  I really don't like dealing with crabby people.  It exhausts me.

2. Do you look like your mother?
Hmmm.  Maybe a bit.  

3. Favorite sex position?
I am very partial to doggy style.  I love it.

4. Will you or have you told your children about your spanking lifestyle?
Our spanking is part of our sex life so no, I have not and will not discuss that with them.  
As far as D/s and what that means to us as a couple.  I actually do discuss some general 
ideas with them.  I want them to see our love and respect for each other.  I also want them 
to see that I give myself (surrendered/submissive) to their Dad because HE is deserving 
of it and has earned this trust I have in him to be the leader in our home.  

5. Do you own any sex toys and if so how many and which is your favorite?
We do...own a fair amount =)  A count, I will just go with a fair amount!  My favorite?  
I have two.  The pretty pink flogger I made and my pink vibrator.  I guess I'm a pink girl! 
Never in a million years would I have thought that I would be a pink girlie-girl.

6. Have you ever had a picture taken of your red bottom after a spanking?
Never of my red bottom. I may have to ask him about that.

7. What decade did you attend high school?

8. What song do you tend to sing in the shower?
Deep melancholy songs, real and made up.  I rock the house in the shower!  I often wonder 
how crazy I sound from out of the shower!

9. Have you ever thought about walking away from your life and starting over somewhere else?

10. Would you go on a cruise with your family and your extended family (parents, in-laws, siblings, etc)
I much prefer to be with my Man and our children only but, yes, I would go with family too.

11. Is there a subject that you and your husband dance around and try to sweep under the carpet
instead of dealing with it?
For the most part we are both very direct and take care of situations head on.  Unfortunately, 
we do have one situation we seem to put off a lot.  

My 11 random facts:
1. Purple is, and has always been, my favorite color.  I never wear purple though, it looks silly on me.
2. Except for my purple corset, it is truly BEAUTIFUL.
3. I really cannot stand abbreviations being used in conversation.  '24/7' drives me nuts.  Take the time to
speak in a full sentence please.
4. I am thankful every day for spell check.
5. I placed in the American Open in my sport....back in the day.
6. I married my Man.  Twice.  (no divorce included-just love)
7. Every time I get into a car for a road trip I feel like I have to pee, even if I just went!
8. I have never had to use our safe word.
9. I have BIG boobs, naturally. And my Man REALLY loves them.
10. I want my nipples pierced but I won't because others will see them through my shirt.
11. "I am amazingly good at board games"  This one is from my Man.  I do have to say, it is true.  I am
freakishly good at group board games.  Answers will fly from my mouth without me even thinking and I
sometimes have NO idea how I know the random fact I just stated.  It's funny.

Now I would like to nominate the following bloggers for the Liebster blog.
Jay at subhub (Awesome s/husband/male POV.  Jay ADORES his Mistress/Wife- very good new blog)
mckitten (still can't find her darn 'Follow this blog' widget so I type in the address often!)
subkitty (made the big leap to blogland and I am glad she did!)
Conina B (not a new kid on the blog, but under 1000 followers and fantastic all the same)
searching for sir (this blogger is in a tough spot trying to figure out if/where she and her Husband fit with
TTWD.  She's a great gal who could use some support)

If you haven't read these blogs, please click on their name and the link will bring you to their blog.  
Check them out!

Here are your questions for my Liebster Award nominees!
1. Where were you the first time you and your Husband/Wife kissed?
2. What does your Husband/Wife do first when waking up (if you're not sure...ask!!)?
3. Favorite place to touch your Husband/Wife?
4. The last place you touched your Husband/Wife?
5. Campfire or fireplace?
6. Biggest sex blooper you and your Husband/Wife have had?
7. Favorite sexy toy?
8. Do you worry (what worries you) about those around you knowing about your relationship dynamic?
9. One hidden talent?
10. If you could change one thing about yourself what would it be?
11. One sex related item you would NOT want to live without? (Besides your partner)


  1. Love your answers ! It's been fun doing this one . I nominated you too. I think we all follow the same blogs :)

    1. Thank you so much!!!! I will post and answer your questions too! The questions really get me it.

      And following the same blogs....great minds think alike s!

      XOXO Pearl

  2. Pearl, I just loved your answers, so glad that I nominated you. Thanks for being so honest with your answers. FYI (oh shoot I used those darn abbreviations - sorry) but You and I share #3 (the doggy position), pink is my favorite color, so I have many pink toys, and I married my husband twice, the second time on our 10th wedding anniversary but missed our 20th. Oh, and I am a little older than you since I graduated high school in the very middle of the 80's.

    1. =) Thanks Blondie!! We do have a lot in common! Do you two joke about your 'First wife/Husband'? We will joke about his first wife being such a bitch or my first Husband being ______.

      I really love the honesty in blogland, so much to learn from others.

  3. I have big boobs naturally as well and Daddy just agreed to let me get then pierced. I'm so excited!

    Loved reading your answers.


    1. Omg I have mine done love them! I suggest some topical cream for numbing if you can get some plus see if you can find someone who can tandem them so it's quicker and less painful... I love love mine !

    2. P, let me know how it goes! So excited for you!!

      s, I need suggestions on how to NOT have others see them in the vanilla world poking out from my shirt. I really am not vain enough to think that my pierced nipples will cause mass horny chaos =) but I really can't stand the thought of other men noticing the piercings. I want them for my Man only. Any thoughts??

    3. I really wanna find someone who will let Daddy do them. The thought of him inflicting the pain is just...mmmm! Lol!

    4. Pearl mine don't stick out I can go around the house braless the kids don't know .. You can use half moons they don't prude much rings are too big the barbel I think you can see a little more if you got close enough... You can email me I can show you one with diff ones in shirts so you can see :) I'm so exited for you .

    5. Oh hell P!! NOW THAT is a terrific idea!!

  4. I love reading these. :) Thank you so much for the recognition, too.

    1. Thanks! And, of course Ms. Conina!! I'm glad you don't mind participating =)

  5. Thanks for the nomination! I love reading these. Gives us all a chance to get to know each other better!

  6. Thank you for nominating me dear Pearl !!!
    I have nominated you as well. Please see the related post on my blog :)

    1. You are so welcome! I will work on the answers =)