If you brought D/s to your relationship,
When did you have the revelation that your partner was doing doing this WITH you and not just FOR you??
Or, if your partner brought it to you,
When did you know that this was FOR you too?
After my long stretches of work, I feel useless. I am mentally and physically exhausted.
We are laying near each other on the couch, me half asleep stretched out laying on my belly, my Man half working on his phone. We toy with my lack of energy for any amount of 'play time' to be had.
I remind him. I'm always ready for you babe, I will find the energy. My eyes are half closed and my body just lays there. I WILL find the energy....I just haven't quite found it yet.
I am asleep.
My pants are being roughly pulled down to my thighs. His strong warm hand rubs and squeezes my ass. MMmmmm. He starts warming my ass with smacks. There is something about his hand striking my bare ass that is so intimate. It really is a lovely way to wake up.
His warming spanks stop. I don't move an inch. I can hear him go into our room.
For our toy box? Oh yes.
know care how long this spanking lasted, but it was quite possibly the best one to date! He alternated my pretty pink flogger with the hard wooden paddle, in rhythm. Pretty flogger softer to hard then POP with the wooden paddle. So much build up, so much effort on my Man's part. He paid special attention to my ass but my back and feet felt the love too!
I am grateful. He wipes away the strain. He wipes away the stress. He brings me back home. Every single strike is a welcomed gift. He delivers me to the most confidently surrendered place. My body melts for him.
He directs me to turn over. I am treated to some love and attention on my nipples and breasts. Wooden paddle in quick, sharp, delicious strikes. Pretty pink flogger doing the amazing work the flogger does. Nipple clamps and more breast spanking. I am squirming. I am brought to the edge. I think I am dripping.
I am turned over again. Nipple clamps with connecting chain in place. OUCH and YUM!
His strength and Dominance literally makes me feel as though I glow. I am the most loved s/wife. I am HIS. Cherished. Beautiful. HIS.
There is an anal plug used. One I quickly identify as the 'large' one we have. I offer my ass to him as best I can. This is so much to take. I squirm. He spanks. He continues slow and steady. I offer my ass again, as best I can. I squirm and yell. He spanks. Again, he continues slow and steady with the plug.
Never has so much love and consideration melded with Dominance and strength like they did with my Man in this moment. He knows my desires, he knows limits, he knows my body. He knows what we BOTH need. I continue to squirm and yell out a bratty 'NO' several times. He confidently continues on.
When the plug is in I am yelling.
I am yelling out for permission to cum.
No answer. He starts to spank me again. I am crying out for permission. Over and over. No answer.
My body is not allowing me to wait. I will not allow myself to let go and feel it until he says. He finally gives me permission. My body and mind follow what my girly parts have already started. I am cumming FOR my Man.
The cherry on top is when he sits on the couch in front of me, pants off.
Are you going to suck my dick or am I going to fuck your throat?
Fuck my throat please.
Being the gentleman he is, he fucks my throat. Just like I so politely asked. I gag and cough and open right back up for him. He continues on, enjoying all of me. This is such a primal fucking. We both cum.
Good way to start your time off babe?
Oh God, yes. Thank you so much.
I continue to thank him over and over, during clean up, after clean up, during cuddle time. I am SO thankful.
Why are you thanking me? He laughs.
Herein, I have THE REVELATION!
I realize that I have always 'thanked' him for giving me what I need and for welcoming what I brought (D/s) to our relationship. During that time of him exploring D/s with me (maybe even FOR me) something else even bigger was happening. He was discovering what HE likes and what HE needs.
HE doesn't just do what I like and need. HE is doing what he likes and needs!! The effort and care into all he did was not just for me. He started our time off the way HE choose to, with me.
He is finding comfort in his Dominance.
Yes, I am thankful. My gratitude is now in it's correct place. I am thankful that he trusts me enough to explore what HE wants. From BOTH of us.
There are several 'moments' during the evolution of this lifestyle that leap you into a new revelation. Some are really big, some are little moments that keep you going. I truly am thankful for each of those moments!
Whether D/s is new in your relationship or your roles have been long established, what are some of YOUR moments?