After doing some reading of my blog, my Man explained to me that my 'Dominant vs. asshole' post http://happilysurrendered.blogspot.com/2013/12/dominant-vs-asshole.html got him thinking. He isn't always comfortable directing me on what to do during our day to day (out of the bedroom) life. He is concerned that it will make him turn into "the asshole". He also sometimes feels that he isn't deserving of my surrender/submission. This is one of the MANY reasons I love this Man. I explained to him that having those fears are exactly what will prevent him from becoming "the asshole".
We, like all of you, work to practice the best version of what feels good to us. We are in this life by choice. We individually make the choice each day to give each other more love than we expect to get. I have complete trust and faith in this Man and I am so very proud to call him my Husband, Dominant or not. I am the luckiest woman on Earth. He is my everything. The least I can do is to cherish him every single day and work to not let one moment pass without offering my love and myself in whatever way he needs and wants.